Hi mama,
Changing a diaper when you’ve got a 10-month-old is a perfectly chaotic concoction of wrestling, negotiating, and parental ingenuity. Forget what you expect—this isn't a quick switch. It's more like a mini-mission.
Here’s what’s actually working for us:
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Leg-lift strategy: Lift both of his little legs—this keeps him from sitting up halfway through the change and escaping like he's defusing a bomb.
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Distraction station: I hand him his current go-to, the Baby Ollie “HarmonyPals” Musical Plush & Teether Toy, and he gets absorbed by the music and textures. It’s not always a win—sometimes nothing works except a half-empty box of cotton tips (those little things are the real MVPs right now).
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Keep singing: A simple tune works wonders—his favorite rhyming song or even “Let It Go” on repeat. The words don’t matter as much as the calm vibe it brings.
Why Diaper Changes Get Tougher Around 10 Months
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More Mobility & Curiosity
At this age, babies want to explore, not lie still. When diaper time interrupts play, you might notice resistance or even panic. -
Desire for Control
Older babies begin asserting independence. Being forced to remain still during changing can feel limiting, making them squirm or cry. -
Negative Memories
If a previous change involved pain—like diaper rash irritation or cold wipes—that association can carry on. They begin to dread the change before it even starts. -
Sensory Overload
Being undressed, touched, wiped, and replaced abruptly can overwhelm their senses—especially if the environment is chilly or harsh. -
Discomfort or Physical Pain
Rashes, infections, or even the shock of cold air can make diaper changes unpleasant. Always check for signs of physical discomfort if resistance is sudden or extreme.
Mom-Tested Tips That Actually Work
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Choose special toys or a cozy item only for diaper time—keeping it novel helps sustain attention.
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Keep all supplies within arm’s reach so you don’t lose momentum during the process.
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Prepare a calm changing space—warm the wipes, dim the lights, and keep the environment soothing.
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Narrate or sing through the steps. It reassures and distracts them while reinforcing the routine.
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Let them stand or help if possible. Small gestures of involvement can make a big difference for toddlers craving independence.
At 10 months, diaper duty can feel like a battleground—but more often, it’s just a baby trying to grow and communicate. A bit of understanding, distraction, and calm approach can transform it from chaos into connection.
A Little Self-Awareness
If this sounds familiar, give yourself all the grace. You’re doing more than diaper changes—you’re fostering development, curiosity, and resilience.
From one nappy ninja to another,
Renata (Ollie’s Mum)💛